While I am kind of sad that I’m no longer a college student (I had a dream Monday night that I magically had another year at BYU and since I had finished all of my required classes I was going to take two semesters of fun classes) there are some perks. One in particular is that I get to choose my own reading list. I’ve gone to town reading a wide variety of books (including the entire Harry Potter series…again), but here are a few that I would highly recommend:
The 5 Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell. This book is great for teachers, parents, or anyone that has any interaction with children. I got tons of ideas of how I probably could have handled myself better in the classroom and wish I could try them out; so any teachers out there that read and do, let me know how it goes! Newborns don’t really fall into the love languages categories, but it also planted seeds for a few months/years down the road in the parenting journey.
Covenant Motherhood by Stephanie Dibb Sorensen. I actually took a class from her the spring term before I got married (anyone still at BYU and looking for a great religion teacher should take from her!). One day in class she told us how she had just submitted her first book to her editor. She explained that she had gotten married in her late 20s and when children came along she loved them very much, but she did not feel an immediate testimony and love of the day-in-day-out life of a stay-at-home-mom. She began studying for years from the scriptures and general conference talks about the divine role of motherhood. One day she was changing her daughters diaper and the thought came into her mind that Jesus is in the cleaning business, and she was too. Overtime, she compiled her studies and personal impressions into a book. Needless to say, I was interested in reading it when it was published! In April after I graduated and had some time, I tracked down her email to see how the book was coming along. It had been recently published so I quickly bought a copy before leaving Utah. It is AWESOME! The book is laid out with each chapter being one of Christ’s roles, and how we can learn to become more like he is in each area through motherhood. I quickly read through it the first time, but I really need to go back and study it sentence by sentence. Highly recommend this one!
I am a Mother by Jane Clayson Johnson. This book was actually recommended to me by my good friend Katie, so she gets credit for this one. This book is a fabulous read for all women, not just those with children. It is full of incredible life experiences and lessons. Here is one quote (of sooo many – really I could quote the whole book, which is why you should just read it) that I think is rather applicable to all and a great reminder, “There are seasons in life. Don’t ever let anyone deny you the blessings and joy of one season because they believe you should be in – or stay in – another season.”
If you have any reading suggestions, from college classes or otherwise, I would love to hear them! Goodreads is a decent resource, but I’m always looking for more ideas.
Katie
I love the “Seasons” quote from Clayson. It’s become a motto for me in my pregnancy.
Jessica
Thanks again for the suggestion!
Corina Sorensen
We had a Relief Society activity last week that was all about women, and how every “season” of our life is different. It made such a huge impact on me. They said that Spring is before you’re a wife and a mother, before you know what you want to do with your life/ where you want to go, Summer is having a houseful of kids, and being a wife, and Fall is basically an emptynester, but what that means is that now you have a huge family, but at home is just you and your spouse. It was so exciting and nerve wracking to me that I’m starting the “Summer” of my life. I think I’ll try that last book out. Thanks for the recommendation.
Jessica
I really like the analogy! It makes each phase and the changes that go with them seem less intimidating.
Andrea Tate
John Gottman’s Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child is AWESOME! We read it for my personality development class. He is A++ anyways. :)
Jessica
It is now on hold at the library. Thanks for the recommendation :)